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October 16, 1944 ~ January 16, 2018 (age 73) 73 Years Old Light a Candle
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A candle was lit by Maria
on January 16, 2024 11:52 AM
Hi Jim, Just me again... trying to get through another year without you. So strange how time goes by so quickly; yet seems to stand still at certain times. Where have 6 years gone? The grandkiddos are getting older and are so beautiful and such a blessing. I know how much you are missed by them. So bitter-sweet though. All their milestones that I'm sharing with them; yet you're not here by my side. I know that you are with us and thank you for letting me know that the other day.. I love you.. xo
Hi Jim, Just me again... trying to get through another year without you. So strange how time goes by so quickly; yet seems to stand still at certain times. Where have 6 years gone? The grandkiddos are getting older and are so beautiful and such a blessing. I know how much you are missed by them. So bitter-sweet though. All their milestones that I'm sharing with them; yet you're not here by my side. I know that you are with us and thank you for letting me know that the other day.. I love you.. xo
A candle was lit by "m"
on January 16, 2023 9:12 AM
Hi Jim, I can't believe that it's been five years today since God called you home. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you and miss you. Life continues to go on from the grandkiddos' school activities, sports, band concerts and family gatherings. I know that you can see it all. It just isn't the same without you here with us. I can tell when send me "signals" now and then and I can feel you close at times, somehow that helps me get through my day.
I love you and miss you so much. xo
Hi Jim, I can't believe that it's been five years today since God called you home. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you and miss you. Life continues to go on from the grandkiddos' school activities, sports, band concerts and family gatherings. I know that you can see it all. It just isn't the same without you here with us. I can tell when send me "signals" now and then and I can feel you close at times, somehow that helps me get through my day.
I love you and miss you so much. xo
A candle was lit by l
on October 19, 2021 10:14 PM
A candle was lit by "m"
on September 21, 2021 7:52 PM
Hi Jim, Today would have been another milestone for us 52 years of marriage. I'm trying my best (as you probably already know) to get through special days without you. It's hard though! I wonder where you would have wanted to go out to eat and to celebrate our special day... I miss you and so do the girls and grandkiddos. Lily will miss her papa teaching her how to drive. We talked about it the other day and I could see how sad she was.
Love you xo
Love you xo
Hi Jim, Today would have been another milestone for us 52 years of marriage. I'm trying my best (as you probably already know) to get through special days without you. It's hard though! I wonder where you would have wanted to go out to eat and to celebrate our special day... I miss you and so do the girls and grandkiddos. Lily will miss her papa teaching her how to drive. We talked about it the other day and I could see how sad she was.
Love you xo
Love you xo
A candle was lit by "m"
on January 17, 2021 7:44 AM
Hi Jim, I can't believe it was 3 years yesterday that you left me and our family. It feels as if it was yesterday! We all miss you so very much! Today there will be prayers said for you at Church and then we'll be going to visit you at your final resting place. Love you xo
Hi Jim, I can't believe it was 3 years yesterday that you left me and our family. It feels as if it was yesterday! We all miss you so very much! Today there will be prayers said for you at Church and then we'll be going to visit you at your final resting place. Love you xo
A candle was lit by "m"
on October 16, 2020 8:42 AM
Hi Jim, It's me again.... Today is your 76th birthday and another sad day in my life. My life goes on and yet there is always that empty feeling. My heart is aching not having you here with me; so we can share another milestone together and with our family...... I miss you so much
Hi Jim, It's me again.... Today is your 76th birthday and another sad day in my life. My life goes on and yet there is always that empty feeling. My heart is aching not having you here with me; so we can share another milestone together and with our family...... I miss you so much
A candle was lit by "m"
on July 21, 2020 11:44 AM
Hi Jim, Sad time again for the family. Mario & Elena have lost another grandfather. Ed has come to join you. Please show him the way around, since you led the way. Both of you were such wonderful, husbands, fathers and grandfathers. I ask for the both of you to protect Mario & Elena and to guide them in the same positive and caring ways you led your lives.
I miss you so much and I feel the heartache that Jane is going through now.
I love you!
Hi Jim, Sad time again for the family. Mario & Elena have lost another grandfather. Ed has come to join you. Please show him the way around, since you led the way. Both of you were such wonderful, husbands, fathers and grandfathers. I ask for the both of you to protect Mario & Elena and to guide them in the same positive and caring ways you led your lives.
I miss you so much and I feel the heartache that Jane is going through now.
I love you!
A candle was lit by "m"
on July 21, 2020 11:28 AM
A candle was lit by "m"
on January 16, 2020 1:12 PM
It's been two years today since you left. Yet it only feels like yesterday that you were here with me. You left a void that can never be filled! There isn't a day that goes by that something reminds me of you. The girls and grandkiddos miss you more than you could have ever imagined. We had your two year church memorial service and the four the kiddos did something special for the service.. We visit you a lot, but you already know that. You have sent me signs when I'm sitting on our bench and remembering how my life use to be. with you in it. I love you so much..... xo
It's been two years today since you left. Yet it only feels like yesterday that you were here with me. You left a void that can never be filled! There isn't a day that goes by that something reminds me of you. The girls and grandkiddos miss you more than you could have ever imagined. We had your two year church memorial service and the four the kiddos did something special for the service.. We visit you a lot, but you already know that. You have sent me signs when I'm sitting on our bench and remembering how my life use to be. with you in it. I love you so much..... xo
A candle was lit by "m"
on April 16, 2019 11:04 AM
How quickly the months have passed since you left. Yet, I feel that it was only yesterday. I feel your presence and know that somehow you're getting me through some decisions that I would need your guidance for. I'm thankful that you allowed me to be a strong partner; throughout our life together. That helps get me through my days and nights without you. miss you :(
How quickly the months have passed since you left. Yet, I feel that it was only yesterday. I feel your presence and know that somehow you're getting me through some decisions that I would need your guidance for. I'm thankful that you allowed me to be a strong partner; throughout our life together. That helps get me through my days and nights without you. miss you :(
A candle was lit by "m"
on March 16, 2019 6:31 PM
Today is Saturday of Souls and 14 months today that you left me. Special prayers were said in Church for you and all my departed family, I pray that you have found healing and peace and are embraced by the love of God! I miss you so much!
Today is Saturday of Souls and 14 months today that you left me. Special prayers were said in Church for you and all my departed family, I pray that you have found healing and peace and are embraced by the love of God! I miss you so much!
A candle was lit by "m"
on February 16, 2019 4:42 PM
I can't believe that it's been 14 months today since you left me (us)…. It seems like only yesterday that you were skiing down the slopes in NH and calling me about the wonderful snow conditions. I miss you so much! :(
I can't believe that it's been 14 months today since you left me (us)…. It seems like only yesterday that you were skiing down the slopes in NH and calling me about the wonderful snow conditions. I miss you so much! :(
A candle was lit by "m"
on January 16, 2019 7:11 PM
It's one year today that you've been gone. I'm trying really hard to wrap my head around this. It just doesn't seem possible. I still think that you'll be walking in the door. Strange as it may sound, it somehow gets me through my day. It's the long winter nights and the empty recliner that makes the end of my day the hardest. I miss you so much. xo
It's one year today that you've been gone. I'm trying really hard to wrap my head around this. It just doesn't seem possible. I still think that you'll be walking in the door. Strange as it may sound, it somehow gets me through my day. It's the long winter nights and the empty recliner that makes the end of my day the hardest. I miss you so much. xo
A candle was lit by "m"
on January 1, 2019 10:48 AM
2019 A new year has started. I'm looking back at the new years that have passed and how we shared them together. Thank you for those memories. I will get through this new year with you guiding me and giving me the strength that I need. I miss you so much.
2019 A new year has started. I'm looking back at the new years that have passed and how we shared them together. Thank you for those memories. I will get through this new year with you guiding me and giving me the strength that I need. I miss you so much.
A candle was lit by "m"
on December 16, 2018 12:15 PM
I can't believe that you've been gone physically from my life 11 months today. I feel your presence around me and I know that you are guiding me. Sometimes I have to stop and turn to see if I can see you. Christmas is approaching and I'm going through the motions. I'm am blessed that we made a beautiful family together. Our girls and grandkiddos are my rocks. I love you and miss you everyday. xo "m"
I can't believe that you've been gone physically from my life 11 months today. I feel your presence around me and I know that you are guiding me. Sometimes I have to stop and turn to see if I can see you. Christmas is approaching and I'm going through the motions. I'm am blessed that we made a beautiful family together. Our girls and grandkiddos are my rocks. I love you and miss you everyday. xo "m"
A candle was lit by "m"
on November 17, 2018 8:29 AM
It was 10 months yesterday that you left us. Life will never be the same for me. Holidays are approaching and there will be a void that can never be replaced. We will continue traditions as you wanted us to. It won't be easy though. Love you and miss you so much.
It was 10 months yesterday that you left us. Life will never be the same for me. Holidays are approaching and there will be a void that can never be replaced. We will continue traditions as you wanted us to. It won't be easy though. Love you and miss you so much.
A candle was lit by "m"
on October 16, 2018 7:06 PM
It's 9 months today since you left me. It's also your birthday. I'm getting by day by day. Somedays are harder than others. Somehow you are sending me strength that I didn't know I had. You're guiding me in ways that sometimes I can't explain. I love you and miss you
It's 9 months today since you left me. It's also your birthday. I'm getting by day by day. Somedays are harder than others. Somehow you are sending me strength that I didn't know I had. You're guiding me in ways that sometimes I can't explain. I love you and miss you
A candle was lit by "m"
on September 17, 2018 10:55 AM
8 months yesterday since you left me. It was heart-breaking having my birthday without you! miss you so much...
8 months yesterday since you left me. It was heart-breaking having my birthday without you! miss you so much...
A candle was lit by M
on August 16, 2018 8:38 PM
Seven months today.... I'm trying hard to be positive and keep plugging along like you want me to. It's hard but I'm doing my best. I miss you so much! xo
Seven months today.... I'm trying hard to be positive and keep plugging along like you want me to. It's hard but I'm doing my best. I miss you so much! xo
A candle was lit by L
on July 13, 2018 8:23 AM
A candle was lit by Maria
on May 16, 2018 1:12 PM
It's been four months today since you left me and my heart is still breaking.
It's been four months today since you left me and my heart is still breaking.
A candle was lit by Maria
on April 16, 2018 12:10 PM
It's three months today since you left me ~ I miss you more every day! xo
It's three months today since you left me ~ I miss you more every day! xo
A candle was lit by Richard Barber
on February 18, 2018 2:44 PM
How does one replace an Oldest Brother? You don’t! Since it was Winter when you passed, we’ll just think of you skiing the mountains in NH! I bet you are watching the US Skiers in the Olympics!
At least you plenty of company up with Mom, Dad, Pat and Eleanor!
I will miss seeing your face at Family functions! God bless you for being a Power of Example to all sof us!
Love ya,
—-Rich——We thank you for all your Service in the Air National Guard! Watch over all of us!
How does one replace an Oldest Brother? You don’t! Since it was Winter when you passed, we’ll just think of you skiing the mountains in NH! I bet you are watching the US Skiers in the Olympics!
At least you plenty of company up with Mom, Dad, Pat and Eleanor!
I will miss seeing your face at Family functions! God bless you for being a Power of Example to all sof us!
Love ya,
—-Rich——We thank you for all your Service in the Air National Guard! Watch over all of us!
Message from Butch and Judy Russell
January 19, 2018 1:49 PM
Tina and Mike and girls -
Our deepest sympathy to all of you as well as your mom and sister and families. Your dad was special, no doubt; may the good times you shared with him and the memories you carry within you remain close to your heart always. Just know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Your father is at peace now, with no more pain and suffering. Hugs to all.
Our deepest sympathy to all of you as well as your mom and sister and families. Your dad was special, no doubt; may the good times you shared with him and the memories you carry within you remain close to your heart always. Just know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Your father is at peace now, with no more pain and suffering. Hugs to all.
Message from Pat and Toni Marshall
January 19, 2018 11:25 AM
Jim was such a fine and loving person who brought joy just to be in his presence. He will surely be greatly missed. Our condolences and deepest sympathies to his devoted wife, Maria, daughters, Andrea and Christina, husbands, grandchildren and friends.
Message from J.E
January 19, 2018 9:44 AM
May the Barber family be comforted during this challenging moment. Condolences are eextended to every family member. May the inspired words of Isaiah 25: 8 help you to cope during disquieting moments.
A TRADITIONAL FUNERAL BASKET was sent on January 18, 2018
Our thoughts are with you. Viola and Family
A candle was lit by Viola Lundberg and Family
on January 18, 2018 3:38 PM
I am so very sorry for the loss of Jim. He was a good man and a great neighbor.
We will all miss him.
I am so very sorry for the loss of Jim. He was a good man and a great neighbor.
We will all miss him.
Message from Linda Worcester-Gaskill
January 18, 2018 3:27 PM
Maria,
Harvey and I are so sorry for your loss. I never met Jim but you have told me many stories so I know he was a great husband and father.
Harvey and I are so sorry for your loss. I never met Jim but you have told me many stories so I know he was a great husband and father.
A DISH GARDEN WITH FRESH FLOWERS was sent by The Urquhart family on January 18, 2018
A candle was lit by Greg & Anne Urquhart
on January 18, 2018 2:29 PM
An INDOOR GARDEN BASKET was sent on January 18, 2018
Sending you and your family our deepest sympathies. With love from Tina's "SFGs", Debbie K, Goldie, Heather, Stacie, Kerri and Nicky
Message from Gloria Darcey-Adams
January 18, 2018 10:16 AM
I'm so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. He was a lovely and generous man. I had the pleasure of working with him just before his retirement and he was a joy to be around. We worked hard but managed to laugh all the time as well. My deepest condolences to his family.
A TROPICAL DISH GARDEN WITH FRESH FLOWERS was sent on January 17, 2018
Deepest sympathy from Peter Lee & Family in Michigan
Message from Lillian and Brad Martin
January 17, 2018 8:15 PM
So sorry to hear about the passing of Jim; Saw him at Matthew Communion. He was always smiling and enjoyed seeing Jim. He was a family man for sure always at an occasion for Courtney and Paul and children.
Deepest sympathy,
Brad and Lillian
Deepest sympathy,
Brad and Lillian
A candle was lit by Valerie Leous Wagner
on January 17, 2018 8:03 PM
A candle was lit by Renan O. Guity
on January 17, 2018 6:51 PM
I had the opportunity to work with Jimmy at Bank Of Boston in Dorchester. I was a CE as part of the check sorter group while Jimmy was the Account Representative. Jimmy knew how to make the day productive and we had our share of after work antics. Jimmy has left a lasting impression on me. My deepest condolence to the family and the array of friends he left behind.
I had the opportunity to work with Jimmy at Bank Of Boston in Dorchester. I was a CE as part of the check sorter group while Jimmy was the Account Representative. Jimmy knew how to make the day productive and we had our share of after work antics. Jimmy has left a lasting impression on me. My deepest condolence to the family and the array of friends he left behind.
A candle was lit by Renan O. Guity
on January 17, 2018 6:35 PM
Message from Janet Phillips
January 17, 2018 4:17 PM
Maria, Tina, Andrea, I'm so sad to hear of this loss. He was a good man and my heart goes out to all of you during this sad time. He will be missed dearly. sincerely Janet Phillips
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